Wow, what a day.
To recap how we got here, Christopher figured he should try a full Ironman while lying on his back exhausted after last year's half Ironman. Which was only 4 months after his first ever Triathlon. That should give you an idea of how crazy and determined my husband is. He and another co-worker got into a "if you sign up, I'll sign up with you" pact, and rather than pick a nice and easy Ironman for their first time, they signed up for the toughest Ironman out there. The St. George Ironman was the closest and most convenient, but also had 5,000 feet of climbing on the bike course. They made the run a bit flatter than in the past (though it was still worse than most), but at least one swim should be the same as another.
We had to be in town by Thursday at 4 to sign in, and then he spent almost all day Friday testing out the water in the reservoir, setting up his bike and turning in his gear bags. Friday night we went over to the house my aunt and uncle rented to have a family dinner.
That was the awesome part of doing a local Ironman - we had such a huge support group! My aunt and uncle have come down to watch the Ironman before even though they didn't know anyone running it, simply because they thought it was so amazing to watch. (They have both run many marathons, triathlons, and relay races, so it is right up their alley.) So when we told them that Christopher signed up, they were thrilled. Two of my cousins came down with their families to have a weekend vacation and come watch with them. And then one of my brothers jumped on the chance and drove up from Las Vegas with his family to cheer Chris on as well. They have run a few races themselves, and my niece (with the red hair in the picture above) has already started triathlons. In fact, she ran one at 10 years old and pulled a 3:15 minute half mile! She told me she couldn't imagine ever trying something like this, and I told her that Christopher remembers thinking the same thing when he was a kid.
Saturday morning was an early start for everyone. My brother drove Chris down to his shuttle at 4 am, and then we headed out to the spectator shuttle at 5:30. Since my kids had been up late for two nights in a row, they were not very happy with me when I woke them up. The amazing part was that after we waited in the long line of cars to park, gathered our gear, and hustled over to the shuttle, my aunt and uncle walked coincidentally into line right in front of us. It was fantastic. I never did find my mother-in-law, who came down with a grandson to watch as well, but I was really glad to have my family all day.
And Daddy even found us in the sea of people before the start of the race!
Watching them start was amazing. They sound off the cannon, and off went almost 1500 swimmers!
Notice the kayaks and boats on hand to help out? Yeah, they got important really fast. The swim started in nice and calm water, but the wind picked up not more than five minutes in. It got worse, and worse, and by the time they turned the corner and headed into the wind it was up to 40 mph and created 4 foot waves.
It was mass carnage.
On land, we had trouble merely walking in the wind. My kids were frozen, and I ended up keeping them tucked behind a large rock so they didn't feel the worst of it. And soon we saw athletes coming in by the dozens, walking like zombies over to where the spectators were watching the finish line to tap their families on the shoulder and end their IronMan day. Unfortunately, Christopher's friend was one of them. By the end, over 200 of them didn't finish that swim. The race director is quoted as saying that had the wind picked up 15 minutes earlier, it "would have been a no-go." With all that goes into putting on a race like this, that isn't a decision to be made lightly. But with everyone already in the water, all we could do was pray the volunteers kept everyone safe and will your particular person to shore somehow. I was huddled at the barrier, shivering and craning my neck to watch everyone step out while muttering "come on hon, you can do it . . ." under my breath.
On Christopher's end, he said that when he felt the first wave he stopped and looked up "to see what idiot was driving their boat so close that I felt the wake." When the wind really picked up and he realized what was going on, his first thought was "oh no, Russell isn't going to make it", since the swim was his friend's weakest leg. But as it got worse, he said his thoughts went to "oh no, I'm not going to make it!" One of the things that kept him going was seeing how busy the volunteers were pulling out the ones that needed help, and deciding that he didn't want to add to that.
And let me tell you, I was never so relieved to see my husband as when he came up to transition! I knew that he was a good enough swimmer to be safe out there, but I was so nervous that he wouldn't make the 2:20 cut off and be devastated. Luckily, he pulled in at 2:02. He said that he was so nervous that he would go the wrong way around the buoys and get DQ'ed that he ended up going around the outer edge of the lane just to be sure.
By the way, I love that at a race like this, they have "strippers" there to help take off the wet-suits.
As a side story, I had completely not thought about us being cold when I packed for the trip. St. George is warm, so I packed warm. And when I realized that it would be cold early in the morning, all I could find for the kids was our beach towels for them to huddle in. Thank heavens we had those, as they spent the entire morning wrapped in them. And when Chris came across, I went back to where the kids were with my brother, and he informed me that Kaitlyn fell asleep.
By some utter miracle, Jasmine slept through the entire four hour ordeal snugly in her car seat, and I was glad that my brother kept watch over them all in the back of the crowd so that Kaitlyn could get a nap too.
Anyway, Christopher went through transition one, and headed out on his bike.
He seemed excited to have that behind him, but of course the wind was not kind to the bikers either.
Apparently the first place pro got blown literally off the course at one point because the wind was so strong. Since finding your biker out on the course is nearly impossible, we went back to the condo to rest and watch his progress on the tracking app. Thankfully, Christopher followed nearly exactly what he had done a month ago when he biked the course with his friend, and since it was windy that day as well he wasn't too surprised by it. And since he was on track, we knew right when to come down and see him finish the 112 mile bike ride.
We couldn't believe how every time we saw him, he was looking up and smiling. Time to head out on the marathon.
It felt almost rude, but when the race is 17 hours long, you have a lot of down time. My brother Gary went for a round of golf with a friend while Christopher was biking. And when he started the marathon, we took the kids to a carousel in the town square.
And then we found a nice shady spot of grass to watch the runners go by.
By the way, I have to mention that having my brother and his wife along was quite literally a life saver. I'm not just saying this because I know he reads my blog - I cannot imagine any possible way I could have made it through the day without them. Watching races is a lot of standing around and watching for your runner to come by, and toddlers aren't much into that. I can't count the number of times they got dumped with the kids so that I could search for Christopher to take pictures or run alongside him for a minute. It often took all of us just to carry the gear and the kids. They were awesome.
This part of the day was actually oddly anticlimactic. The weather was beautiful, and we could just relax in our chairs, attempt to keep the kids out of the running ditch water in front of us, and watch the runners flow by. The marathon was three loops that went up and down the street, and many of the athletes didn't have much energy left, so it was a constant stream of them walking up and down in front of us.
Not my husband, though. He said that he has walked on marathons before, so it wasn't that he was above it - he just wanted to see if he could manage to run the whole thing. So he did. He ran every single step of the marathon, and despite what came before it, pulled a 4 hour 13 minute time, which is a great time for anyone on a normal day.
Maya tried to offer him one of our cookies, but I think he was just too focused.
Before we started, we had a lot of discussions on what he expected to be able to do. He told me he was thinking the swim would be a little over 1:30 (obviously that got off track), the bike would be 7:30 (he did 7:38) and "I'll just put whatever I have left into the marathon". All told, he was thinking it would be great if he could come in by 15 hours, but "as long as I finish by the 17 hour cut off I'll be happy." Since he made up so much time on the marathon, he finished the day even earlier than he had hoped. When he turned the corner to the bright lights, all he could see were silhouettes of hands reaching out for a high five, so he decided to duck and weave across his lane, slapping as many as he could.
And at just over 14 hours, he ran in and kissed the finish line post.
I just can't believe how well he did! Finishing an Ironman at all is a major accomplishment, finishing this particular Ironman with the horrendous swim and mountain climbs is unbelievable, and my husband managed to finish 537th out of just over 1100 finishers.
My title is literally what they say as you cross the finish line - Christopher Skarda, you are an IRONMAN! It might be the most amazing title he has ever achieved. Way to go, babe!
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Monday, April 30, 2012
Turks and Caicos
Last week we went on Christopher's much debated management retreat for work. I say "much debated" because we knew about this trip before we knew when Jasmine would arrive, if she would be healthy enough to travel, and if we could get her a passport in time. Most days I thought this might be a very bad idea, to be honest. Who takes a seven week old baby on a Caribbean trip? But the opposite question was, who turns down a free Caribbean vacation? Christopher had to go on his work trip whether I went or not, so in the end, we ditched our older kids at Grandma Skarda's house and took the baby with us.
Now, normally I am happy to leave the kids at home for these trips. Each time we have gone, I have thought about how much our (at the time, 3 year old or so) kids would have hated getting off their nap schedule and having nothing to do where we went. They would have been miserable, and we wouldn't have been able to do what we wanted to do. Our kids LOVE staying at Grandma's house, and Kaitlyn was asking if it was time to stay there yet for weeks. So usually it is better to leave them behind for these trips.
This was not that trip.
We went to Beaches resort, and it was an honest to goodness five year old HEAVEN.
There were Sesame Street characters wandering around to greet kids, tuck them in at night, and perform in shows with the kids.
All you can eat treats, with little people sized beach chairs to enjoy them in.
An entire waterpark, in addition to the pools and beach.
Not to mention our room had awesome bunk beds all ready for them.
And instead, we brought the one kid that wouldn't enjoy a second of it. But hey, it was intended to be a management retreat for couples so that we could all spend time together. And I have seen in the past that when families come, they spend time as a family and not doing things with other couples. So there was a reason we all left our preschoolers at home.
And Jasmine did enjoy the trip, I think. Her favorite part was the ceiling fan in our room. She would lie on our bed and watch that thing spin like it was the most awesome object she had ever seen. In fact, she usually kept smiling at it until she drifted off to sleep.
And she sort-of liked swimming.
She even had a friend.
While Tabitha is only twelve days younger, she was born a couple of pounds smaller and is barely up to Jasmine's birth weight. She looked so dainty to me! Meanwhile, lots of people would ask me how many months old Jasmine is, and when I replied "seven weeks" I usually had to follow up their dropped jaw with "She likes food. A lot."
Of the eleven couples, seven had kids under two years old. Nursing babies were allowed to come, and we ended up with the two newborns and two 1 1/2 year olds. Since they were planning events for the couples to do together, two teenage daughters came along to babysit as well. So it all worked out great! Jasmine was quite happy to take a (pumped) bottle, and she had a great time with her new friends a few times.
We played in the water park . . .
(We laugh at this picture a lot, actually, See how he looks like he has a huge gut? In reality, the shorts are barely held up by his hips because he has lost weight training for the IronMan. Ironic, no?)
We went snorkeling . . .
Took the Hobie Cats out for a spin . . .
And even got some spray art "tattoos". (And apparently I was paying so little attention to my photography that I made an orange tree grow out of Ken's head. Ta Da!)
See, I told ya my husband is fit. Hot stuff, babe.
One of the teenagers talked her mom into "I get to pick yours and you get to pick mine" deal. I think the mom got the short end of that stick, but she was a fantastic sport about it.
It says "bad girl", if you can't see it too well. The girls got Buddas in blue sparkle. Mom swore it would be gone by work this morning, no matter how much she had to scrub. But as the artist pointed out, "if you can't have fun on vacation, you shouldn't be here!"
One of my favorite things that we did I left my camera behind for, unfortunately. Each resort on the island adopts a school, and provides them with lunches and computer labs, etc. So we got to take a trip over to the local elementary school and read to the kids. It was so awesome! They were adorable kids who loved to hug and play with the newcomers, and it was great to see the real island instead of the pristine resort for a while.
It is good to be home, though. The funny part was that just a couple of days before we left, Kaitlyn asked me what we were going to do at home while she was playing at Grandma's house. She looked a bit less excited when I told her we were going to a hotel. Near a beach. When we got there, we saw Elmo walking around and I told Christopher sarcastically that we should get our picture taken with him so we could ruin Kaitlyn's entire week in one go. Poor girl. Thankfully, our kids really did have a blast with Grandma and their cousins all week. Now we just have three days to get all the laundry done and head down for the IronMan!
Now, normally I am happy to leave the kids at home for these trips. Each time we have gone, I have thought about how much our (at the time, 3 year old or so) kids would have hated getting off their nap schedule and having nothing to do where we went. They would have been miserable, and we wouldn't have been able to do what we wanted to do. Our kids LOVE staying at Grandma's house, and Kaitlyn was asking if it was time to stay there yet for weeks. So usually it is better to leave them behind for these trips.
This was not that trip.
We went to Beaches resort, and it was an honest to goodness five year old HEAVEN.
There were Sesame Street characters wandering around to greet kids, tuck them in at night, and perform in shows with the kids.
All you can eat treats, with little people sized beach chairs to enjoy them in.
An entire waterpark, in addition to the pools and beach.
Not to mention our room had awesome bunk beds all ready for them.
And instead, we brought the one kid that wouldn't enjoy a second of it. But hey, it was intended to be a management retreat for couples so that we could all spend time together. And I have seen in the past that when families come, they spend time as a family and not doing things with other couples. So there was a reason we all left our preschoolers at home.
And Jasmine did enjoy the trip, I think. Her favorite part was the ceiling fan in our room. She would lie on our bed and watch that thing spin like it was the most awesome object she had ever seen. In fact, she usually kept smiling at it until she drifted off to sleep.
And she sort-of liked swimming.
She even had a friend.
While Tabitha is only twelve days younger, she was born a couple of pounds smaller and is barely up to Jasmine's birth weight. She looked so dainty to me! Meanwhile, lots of people would ask me how many months old Jasmine is, and when I replied "seven weeks" I usually had to follow up their dropped jaw with "She likes food. A lot."
Of the eleven couples, seven had kids under two years old. Nursing babies were allowed to come, and we ended up with the two newborns and two 1 1/2 year olds. Since they were planning events for the couples to do together, two teenage daughters came along to babysit as well. So it all worked out great! Jasmine was quite happy to take a (pumped) bottle, and she had a great time with her new friends a few times.
We played in the water park . . .
(We laugh at this picture a lot, actually, See how he looks like he has a huge gut? In reality, the shorts are barely held up by his hips because he has lost weight training for the IronMan. Ironic, no?)
We went snorkeling . . .
Took the Hobie Cats out for a spin . . .
And even got some spray art "tattoos". (And apparently I was paying so little attention to my photography that I made an orange tree grow out of Ken's head. Ta Da!)
See, I told ya my husband is fit. Hot stuff, babe.
One of the teenagers talked her mom into "I get to pick yours and you get to pick mine" deal. I think the mom got the short end of that stick, but she was a fantastic sport about it.
It says "bad girl", if you can't see it too well. The girls got Buddas in blue sparkle. Mom swore it would be gone by work this morning, no matter how much she had to scrub. But as the artist pointed out, "if you can't have fun on vacation, you shouldn't be here!"
One of my favorite things that we did I left my camera behind for, unfortunately. Each resort on the island adopts a school, and provides them with lunches and computer labs, etc. So we got to take a trip over to the local elementary school and read to the kids. It was so awesome! They were adorable kids who loved to hug and play with the newcomers, and it was great to see the real island instead of the pristine resort for a while.
It is good to be home, though. The funny part was that just a couple of days before we left, Kaitlyn asked me what we were going to do at home while she was playing at Grandma's house. She looked a bit less excited when I told her we were going to a hotel. Near a beach. When we got there, we saw Elmo walking around and I told Christopher sarcastically that we should get our picture taken with him so we could ruin Kaitlyn's entire week in one go. Poor girl. Thankfully, our kids really did have a blast with Grandma and their cousins all week. Now we just have three days to get all the laundry done and head down for the IronMan!
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Thanksgiving Point
My mother-in-law gave us all memberships to Thanksgiving Point for Christmas, but with winter weather and the new baby, I hadn't gotten to use it yet. Thank goodness the weather was awesome this week! On Monday, we went to the Children's Gardens with all of their cousins. The kids loved all the stations there - there are things to climb on and through, a stage to pretend on, a tiny river to send plastic bits down, and they especially loved this jungle gym.
My kids are toward the top, if you were looking for them.
I knew we would need a second trip for the tulip festival though. I love to wander around and take pictures, and that is a bit tough with toddlers. But I didn't want to just leave them at home either, because they still enjoy it! Luckily my usual babysitter said she was really bored this week, so she came with us. So while the kids were off rolling down the hill and chasing her, I got to have my fun.
And of course, I made sure to get some pictures of my cuties with all the flowers while I was at it.
Jasmine slept through most of it and just made this brief appearance after she nursed. But she decided she didn't care for the wind, sun, or inexperienced toddlers holding her, so back in the stroller she went.
I even got some cute shots with their "Mee Kenna", as Kaitlyn calls her.
When McKenna tried to pick up Tyler to sit on the bridge too, he screamed "NO! I don't want to go in the water!!" and panicked. It was hilarious!
My kids are toward the top, if you were looking for them.
I knew we would need a second trip for the tulip festival though. I love to wander around and take pictures, and that is a bit tough with toddlers. But I didn't want to just leave them at home either, because they still enjoy it! Luckily my usual babysitter said she was really bored this week, so she came with us. So while the kids were off rolling down the hill and chasing her, I got to have my fun.
And of course, I made sure to get some pictures of my cuties with all the flowers while I was at it.
Jasmine slept through most of it and just made this brief appearance after she nursed. But she decided she didn't care for the wind, sun, or inexperienced toddlers holding her, so back in the stroller she went.
When McKenna tried to pick up Tyler to sit on the bridge too, he screamed "NO! I don't want to go in the water!!" and panicked. It was hilarious!
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Easter
I have to say, I am rather sick of plastic eggs.
First we had the neighborhood hunt a couple of weeks ago.
Then each of our kids hunted for eggs in their classes at school. (Ack! Both of my older kids. I have to keep reminding myself: I have three kids, not just two now. And Jasmine obviously does not attend school or hunt for eggs.)
On Saturday, BYU hosted an egg hunt. It was free, the kids got to run around in the stadium, and there were prizes in the eggs ranging up to football season tickets, so why not?
We were not alone.
But it went really well. There was so much candy that every kid left with a full basket. None of our eggs had any prizes in them, though.
And then we went to the family egg hunt.
We brought 10 eggs per kid, but Grandma chipped in an extra 100 or so just in case. I think the kids have more candy than they got from Halloween.
And we even lined up all the babies for a picture. The oldest was born last September, and then Jasmine is the youngest.
And I got a better shot, but only when the sad one had already left.
By the time we got to Sunday, I decided that the Easter bunny did not need to visit our house. Of course, I realized after church that I had already bought little toys to go in their baskets, and Grandma Jones even got me this cool edible grass to go in too. So maybe I should have just taken the candy from their stash to fill the eggs.
Oh well.
We did have a great day at church - the program was awesome, as usual, and Jasmine was kind enough to sleep through almost all of her first church trip. I didn't work too hard on Easter outfits this year. But I was impressed when I figured out that Kaitlyn's first Easter dress fit Jasmine just fine, and that Kaitlyn had a matching white eyelet dress that I got from a garage sale a while ago. Unfortunately, this was as cooperative as Kaitlyn would be for the pictures.
What do you think, do my girls look alike? Kaitlyn was a few weeks older here, but this her in the Easter dress.
And here is Jasmine.
The poses might not be the same, but I think they are a lot alike. Jasmine certainly has more hair though!
First we had the neighborhood hunt a couple of weeks ago.
Then each of our kids hunted for eggs in their classes at school. (Ack! Both of my older kids. I have to keep reminding myself: I have three kids, not just two now. And Jasmine obviously does not attend school or hunt for eggs.)
On Saturday, BYU hosted an egg hunt. It was free, the kids got to run around in the stadium, and there were prizes in the eggs ranging up to football season tickets, so why not?
We were not alone.
But it went really well. There was so much candy that every kid left with a full basket. None of our eggs had any prizes in them, though.
And then we went to the family egg hunt.
We brought 10 eggs per kid, but Grandma chipped in an extra 100 or so just in case. I think the kids have more candy than they got from Halloween.
And we even lined up all the babies for a picture. The oldest was born last September, and then Jasmine is the youngest.
And I got a better shot, but only when the sad one had already left.
By the time we got to Sunday, I decided that the Easter bunny did not need to visit our house. Of course, I realized after church that I had already bought little toys to go in their baskets, and Grandma Jones even got me this cool edible grass to go in too. So maybe I should have just taken the candy from their stash to fill the eggs.
Oh well.
We did have a great day at church - the program was awesome, as usual, and Jasmine was kind enough to sleep through almost all of her first church trip. I didn't work too hard on Easter outfits this year. But I was impressed when I figured out that Kaitlyn's first Easter dress fit Jasmine just fine, and that Kaitlyn had a matching white eyelet dress that I got from a garage sale a while ago. Unfortunately, this was as cooperative as Kaitlyn would be for the pictures.
What do you think, do my girls look alike? Kaitlyn was a few weeks older here, but this her in the Easter dress.
And here is Jasmine.
The poses might not be the same, but I think they are a lot alike. Jasmine certainly has more hair though!
Thursday, April 5, 2012
One month down, one month to go
I can't believe she is already getting bigger! She has outgrown some clothes and the N diapers, and actually started smiling at me the last few days. Nothing beats the first baby smile! She has always been smiling with her little tummy bubbles, but three times now she has been fussy and bored laying somewhere, and when I pick her up and say "hi!" she just smiles right back at me with this big wide grin.
Hopefully soon I'll catch one on camera. For now, we just have more sibling action.
I heard a lot of horror stories about siblings regressing and acting out when a new addition comes, but these guys have been great.
In the meantime, we have one month to go . . . until Daddy's IronMan. He has been putting in hours each and every day. He even went down and biked the course last week, and he felt like it went really well. The course is really long and really tough, but he did it with a good enough time that he could make the cut off on race day.
So we're just hanging in there until then. About the only other news around here is that I just got a Kindle. Anyone have any good book recommendations? The great thing about an e-reader is that I can read while nursing or rocking her to sleep, when otherwise I would just be staring at the walls for 20 minutes. Let me know if you have any good ones I should load on there!
And finally, my favorite picture of the day. I never had a sister, but I'm glad that Kaitlyn got one to chat with!
Hopefully soon I'll catch one on camera. For now, we just have more sibling action.
I heard a lot of horror stories about siblings regressing and acting out when a new addition comes, but these guys have been great.
In the meantime, we have one month to go . . . until Daddy's IronMan. He has been putting in hours each and every day. He even went down and biked the course last week, and he felt like it went really well. The course is really long and really tough, but he did it with a good enough time that he could make the cut off on race day.
So we're just hanging in there until then. About the only other news around here is that I just got a Kindle. Anyone have any good book recommendations? The great thing about an e-reader is that I can read while nursing or rocking her to sleep, when otherwise I would just be staring at the walls for 20 minutes. Let me know if you have any good ones I should load on there!
And finally, my favorite picture of the day. I never had a sister, but I'm glad that Kaitlyn got one to chat with!
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